Mexborough Baptist Church Sunday 20th June 2021 Fathers Day
Today we welcome everyone to this all-age family worship service. From the littlest to the oldest, may we all be truly blessed. We begin by singing 'Father in heaven how we love you' followed by 'Praise my soul the king of heaven' click on the links
Lisa and I enjoyed preparing this service together, particularly the family activity bags for Fathers Day. Here is what we included in the bags...
We do hope you like them as much as we enjoyed putting them together. Paul enjoyed colouring in a snake and making a mobile....
There is a template of the mobile attached at the bottom of this email if you would like to print one off and make one yourself.
We would like to encourage every family to join in with the quiz and questionnaire. Here they are....
In the Bible, Romans 4:16 tells us that God is the Father of us all. Our heavenly Father is worthy of all our praise with tambourines, clapping hands, dancing feet and our voices - God Is Our Father; For He Has Made Us His Own click on the link
Lisa shares her Father’s Day thoughts with us...
Father’s Day is a tricky day for me - a stark and cruel reminder, year after year, that I am unwanted.
I didn’t have a dad. Of course, I have a biological father, as we all do, but I don’t know or see him. It’s a mutual decision but, much as I deny it, it doesn’t make it hurt any less. My mum has been a wonderful parent but there was no mistaking the void I felt when my school friends would share stories about their dads, and the girls in my Brownie pack would spend weeks perfecting their Father’s Day crafts, pouring their heart and soul into every little pencil line. I would join in because, well, what else would I be doing?
I had a step-dad as a young child, but the less said about him, the better. No, my gifts were reserved for one man; my hero and the first man I ever loved – my Grandad. He is one of my most favourite people in all the world and there was nowhere I felt safer than nestled into his lap. Even now, twenty years after he gave them up, the smell of pipe tobacco instantly comforts me. Some of my best memories have been with my Grandad and I am so incredibly grateful and blessed to have and to have had his love and support throughout my life.
My husband is a fantastic father to our three small children but even this is something I’ve struggled with a little. Growing up without a father figure in my daily home life, I didn’t know how to navigate a two-parent dynamic; my Mum had been two parents in one and I was so used to seeing her juggling everything that I didn’t know how to split the role or ask for help. I struggled with relinquishing control and partnering in decision-making and parenting style. I feel fortunate that he is very patient and understanding with me and we navigate this path together – and hopefully we do it well!
I’m proud to say that I do have a wonderful step-dad now. He’s everything I could have hoped for, even if I had to wait twenty years to get him! There’s something about the decision to take on another man’s child (and a broken, adult one, at that) and choose to love her as your own. I can’t quite wrap my head around it, but I’m so grateful that he can, and does!
The truth is that we have all experienced this selfless love to an even greater degree when we became sons and daughters of the Father. In fact, we are given such an assurance that we are His beloved children, that we are encouraged to come boldly to Him and cry out to Him, calling Him “Abba!” – the very same name that Jesus Himself used for Him. For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons and daughters by which we cry out, “Abba! Father!” – Romans 8:15
My story isn’t unusual. In 2019 the Office for National Statistics declared that 2.9 million families in the UK were lone-parent families. Many children today will be honouring their grandfathers, uncles, brothers, stepdads, single mums, and perhaps just as many will be feeling unloved and unwanted, fatherless and ashamed.
Psalm 68:5 calls God “A Father to the Fatherless” and that’s exactly who He is. Nobody is ever truly fatherless when we are adopted into God’s family. See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! – 1 John 3:1
I might not have had a biological dad who wanted me but I have a Father in heaven who chose me, and who blessed me with kind and generous men who love me because they want to, and not because my DNA dictates that they should. I would argue that that’s even better.
Father’s Day is a tricky day for me - a beautiful and poignant reminder, year after year, that I am wanted.
Thank you, Lisa, for sharing your personal experiences with us and reminding us that, whatever our experience of earthly fathers, our Heavenly Father loves us with an everlasting love. He chooses to adopt us into his family - isn't that wonderful? We may find it hard to believe but it is true. Ephesians 1:4-5 says, "For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will." This next song expresses our wonder and worship for God's great love to us - 'Father God I wonder' click on the link
Prayers
We're going to sing our intercessions today which provides an opportunity to place our cares and troubles into God's hands. We sing together 'Father I place into your hands' click on the link
Stuart Townend is a well known contemporary Christian songwriter and in this video he shares the story behind his song 'How Deep The Father's Love For Us' click on the link
And now we sing this wonderful song - How Deep the Father's Love For Us click on the link
Benediction
May the eyes of your heart be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in his holy people, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is the same as the mighty strength he exerted when he raised Christ from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every name that is invoked, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. Ephesians 1:18-21
Go in peace to love and serve the Lord, whoever you are, wherever you are, whatever you do. Amen.
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